Past and Future Life

Here I am 36 years old and writing a paper on my past, present and future life. In this paper I ordain present a brief description of a few of my life experiences that I faced growing up. I will also look ahead to the goal I fate to accomplish in the future. I grew up in a military family, My forefather was in the U. S. military at the Air Force rest home in Fayetteville, NC ab come forward 2 hours from Jacksonville w here he and his family was living. My father and m separate met in Jacksonville and from there the rest is history.My earliest childhood memories were growing up between Jacksonville and Georgia. I was the youngest of 2. My dad continued to serve in the Army simply for whatever reasons he and my obtain decided to divorce. At that point my mother packed me and my infant up and moved back to Georgia to live with her pargonnts for a while. While living there with my grandparents my sister and I never got along she would always do intimacys and blame me for it. I remember integrity wickedness after eating dinner my sister got up to put her dishes in the sink in the kitchen, so I came in behind her but as I walked up into the kitchen I saw her go the gas stove on (and you know to use a gas stove you waste to put down it) she then walked out of the kitchen, so I stayed in there nd washed my dishes up but, forward I could finish my mother came in and said that she smelled gas, so I told her that my sister was in here messing with the stove, my mother called my sister in the kitchen to find out what happened and of course my sister sat there and lie and said that I turned the stove on.I then tried to tell my mother that my sister was lying on me but she didnt want to believe eachthing that I was assigning so I got into exsert for something I didnt do. I was never able to tell my side of a story because the first thing my mother would say was shut up because I dont believe a word you are saying. As I got older and into my teenage years I started experiencing things and recovering a lot of things for myself.I started creep out to hang out with my friends, I went to parties, sleep overs just so I could get out the house. I cute to ware a boyfriend but my mother told me that I was to young to date. At the age of 16 , I had gotten pregnant I kept it a secret for a genuinely long time, I continued to go to school and work. One day someone called my mother and told her that she may want to take me to the doctor and check to see if Im pregnant.Well a few days later My stepfather and I was in a car accident and I had to go to the Hospital and et x-rays on my knee because it had gotten busted up in the accident. So when the nurse came in my mother was asked to step out the d wholesome and the nurse started giving me a physical and I told her that I believed that I was pregnant and she said well thats funny you say that because your mother wanted me to do a pregnancy test on you.I asked the nurse not to say anythin g to my mother at that point and the nurse told me that she couldnt do that so I immediately got scared of what was going to happen next. My mother was told the news about me being pregnant and she was not happy at all. I couldnt go back to school because I was unable to walk on my leg from the accident but that real wasnt the real reason it was because my mother didnt want to legion(predicate) other people knowing but they already knew what was going on.Well a few weeks went by and one morning my mother came and woke up it had to be around 300am so I got up without any questions my mother , stepfather and I all got into he car and left, I had no idea where we were going so I ended up falling back to sleep until we reached our destination and when we got there my mom asked me Do you know where we are? I aid no so we proceeded to go into the this huge place but once we got in I new what it was from there. It was the abortion clinic in another part of Georgia my mother was getting ready to make me have an abortion and I didnt wan to.Well we went to the back I spoke with the doctor and they had to see how far along I was first beforehand they proceed with the unconscious process lucky they couldnt perform the procedure because I was to far along in my pregnancy,so then my mother wanted me to have the child and put it up for adoption, she wanted me to give it to one of my step fathers brother and his married woman but hat fell thru, then she wanted me to have the baby and put his last take a crap the same as hers for insurance purposes at least thats what she told me.I really didnt have a say so when it came to my child, and I had a big problem with that so I went back to work so I can take care of my child. One night I came home from work and before I could get to the steps I could here my baby crying and crying, I walked into the house to see that no one was there to comfort him. I walked through the house to find that my mother was in the bed sound asleep .I was very angry with her at this point so I had to cast a way to et out of that house, so I called and spoke with my oldest sister and we both got in forgather with our father and we made plans for him and my uncle to come and rescue us from this mess. I finally turned 18 and my father and uncle came to pick us up from Georgia and brought us to NC I was very glad to be past from that house with my mother. When I got settled in I went back to school and got my high school diploma I was very excited then because I completed the high school and it was time that I find a job so I can continue to take care of my child.I attended the local community college here and eceived my certification as a nursing assistant and from there I went to work for a few nursing homes but then, I got tired of all that firm work for a little bit of pay so I quit working(a) in that field for a while and started doing retail , I enjoyed working in the retail field it was a real learning experience but my passion was still in the health field so I went back to college. In our studies of adult development theory, I was interested to learn about Eriksons theories of psychosocial stages.Erikson believed adolescents torment over who they are and how they fit into their social world. (Witt& Mossler 2010, pg. 53). Here I am now with 2 children and working towards my Business degree. It has taken me a really long time to figure out what it was that I really wanted to be doing and where I wanted to be in my life and I have forecast it out now. My goal is to finish my business degree and open up my business and then go back to school to obtain my bachelors in healthcare management. I have learned so many things from my childhood growing up, but I cant dwell on the past although sometimes I have to go back in time to relate to the present.Now I have to build a future for me and my hildren so they can see how hard there mother worked and how far I have gotten in life. As our text explains, modeling is an important source of learning (Witt& Mossler,2010) and I also want to set a good examples for my children. My family and friends are very supportive and happy that I have elect to go back to college and get my degree. With all this support it has helped me to succeed in my courses (chu2010). I believe that you are never to old to go back to school and reach the goals that you have been trying to reach. I look you have to have faith and believe that things will work out.